Love Changes..

Have you ever felt the changes with your closed ones after getting closed?

Ever noticed about the back story about it?

The initial period of relationship either friendship ,love or whatever starts with flaws. Sometimes the flaws gets identified, highlighted even prioritized . These flaws eventually reminds you of them. Whenever third person makes a mistake , it will remind you of them. Here starts the Love.

Later the flaws appear beautiful just like your relationship. You get to it and make prepared for it. You understand the minus and make it solved. This may happen equally or partially on both sides. 

Going smooth ??

Days Passover. Here comes the rivalry. 'Used to it' has become a phrase that brings the pause. When you are used to it and get to know about the flaws, in later period life slows down and makes a break. You get so thoughtful about life and think it's not interesting anymore. 

"I know this happens...it's okay .. I'm used to it..." 

Adjustments you make will bring a major difference in you. You start thinking of it. The opposite partner who does the mistakes get offended by their mistake which he/she does as mistake by mistake.

Bit Confusing?

Before the relationship, they did mistake. During relationship, they did mistake. After few years of relationship, they did mistake. And you know this will happen.. But still you query them regarding it .. Who makes the mistake?

You know the person is like that only.. So eventually it becomes a part of their character. In someway we are a part of their life, which doesn't mean we are the author right?

The sudden change occurs may hurt . But continuous and predictable thing .. Okay I agree it hurts. But think the way from their point of view. To be honest, will they do directly to hurt you? Is the flaw getting rude or out of the box? Is the change happened after your entry?

Think of it.. 

Perfection is never perfect. The thing which made you to love is now decreasing your love means then talk to each other. Try not solving try to understand each other. 

Never curse a beach with the small stone that hit your feet.

Never get rid of adjustments. If your small adjustment could bring smile, then make it happen. Understand each other's nature and spread love.

Fight till you cry and hug each other with smile. 

Because Love is everything the world needs!💜